At Rehoboth Springs, Mother’s Day is not just a day of celebration—it’s a moment for reflection. Behind every godly, nurturing mother is a marriage that either empowers or challenges her. That’s why this year, we’re encouraging young couples to see marriage as a divine calling. Hebrews 13:4 reminds us that marriage is honourable in all. God esteems it, defends it, and expects us to preserve its holiness. As couples, especially in the early years of building a family, we must choose to guard our union for our joy, and for the stability of our homes and the flourishing of our children.

But let’s face it, marriage isn’t always easy, especially in the early years when responsibilities increase and expectations can feel overwhelming. But giving up isn’t the answer. In fact, current statistics show very worrisome statistics. For example, in the U.S. (2024), the median length of a first marriage ending in divorce is 8 years. 41% of first marriages end in divorce, often after only 8 years. 60% of second marriages, approximately 7.3 years for men and 6.8 years for women, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce within 5–8 years. The statistics are a bit better in Canada, where the average length of a marriage ending in divorce is now 15.3 years. The consequent effect on society is evident as children from divorced homes often face greater challenges emotionally and academically.

The good news from these statistics is that couples who pray together, seek counsel, and invest in their relationship are significantly more likely to stay together, thrive, and raise responsible children.
Marriage is not just a partnership. It is a vow before God. That is why on this Mother’s Day, we encourage every young couple to recommit to your marriage and home by honouring your covenant, fight for your unity, guard your intimacy, and refuse distractions.

Don’t let anything or anyone separate you from your spouse. Invite God into your daily routines through prayer, devotions, and worship. Communicate openly, forgive quickly, and speak kindly. As you pursue your life goals and dreams, ensure you are growing together, not apart. That is why we use this occasion to echo the voice of God in the scriptures, which states that He hates divorce (putting away). Divorce is an interruption to a covenant between both of you and God. Even when things may be rough today, God’s plan for you is one of healing, restoration, and mutual growth.

Strong marriages lead to strong mothers, who in turn raise strong children. Your children are watching how you love, how you handle conflict, and how you lead in faith. When you choose to honour your marriage, you teach them to honour their spouses in the future. Let your home be the place where your children see Christ’s love in action. It is time to commit to learn each other’s love languages and forgive quickly. Avoid silence when a simple dialogue could have solved the problem. Don’t wait until things fall apart. And when you speak, let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good (Ephesians 4:29).

As we honour mothers today, we call on all husbands to rise in love. You are the best person to cherish your wife. Don’t let another man do the compliment for you. Make it a duty to protect your wife emotionally and lead her with humility. Instead of merely buying gifts or flowers, give your wife and your family the gift of renewed commitment, emotional presence, and spiritual leadership. And if your marriage is in a difficult place, know this: God is a restorer. There is hope. There is help. Don’t walk alone. You can also become a part of our monthly young couples’ forum.

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Let’s build homes that honour God, strengthen mothers, and raise children in love. Happy Mother’s Day from all of us at Rehoboth Springs Young Couples’ Forum!